Not afraid to be single

To my female friends with disabilities, I’d love to share my thoughts about love and relationship in this article. First of all, I’d tell you that I am in love easily, but I am not getting into a relationship easily. The reason is I am still proud of myself, Thank God for giving me many wonderful things which I appreciate.

I have been prepared to live without life partner, even now. Of course, people with disabilities need extra love and caring, especially women with disabilities. Most of us have spent many lonely days and nights. Does it mean we must find a man no matter who is he, as long as he can accept who we are? No, I denied it!Recently I have heard many stories about my female friends.

Sadly, one of them has affair with a married man. The question marks rose up from my mind when I knew my friend helps him to solve financial difficulties. As we can see, my friend really appreciates this man. But is this fair to my friend? Would she still choose this man if she was an able-bodied?

We, women with disabilities should be respected and not belittled. We have our own value and belief. Do not pull down our criteria too low, that is. We’ve always got a better choice. Don’t get me wrong, I am not telling that we “must” to get a white collar man, multimillionaire or an able-bodied man.

Be honest to ourselves, we have to be clear what kind of life that we deserve. We deserve for a man who loves and understands, and is willing learn from us. Do not fear to be single if we really couldn’t find our ideal life partner. We still could to live happily and independently. There are so many things waiting for us…